Can You Really Just Go Online and Order a Wife from Some Other Country?

Can You Really Just Go Online and Order a Wife from Some Other Country?


While people have been sending messages back
and forth to arrange marriages sight-unseen throughout history, the slightly more modern
concept of mail-order brides is generally considered to have originated during the days
of the American Frontier- a region that, for a time, was decidedly lacking in members of
the female persuasion. At the same time, the east coast of the U.S.
had something of a surplus of single ladies, especially following the Civil War. Thus, farmers, miners and ranchers frustrated
with the lack of women they didn’t have to pay, but could rather woo with their abilities
with a spittoon and then start a family with, instead eventually took to placing ads in
newspapers across the country looking for love. Single ladies on the other side, often motivated
by getting out of their present situation and finding a devoted man, in turn likewise
took to placing ads for prospective husbands. Much like online dating today when matches
were found, the pair would invariably exchange saucy letters and at a certain point even
photographs to see if they were suited for one another. Also like today, this form of match making
came with a huge social stigma with it generally considered that the men were just out to get
sex and exploit women, while the women were out for financial gain of some sort, or in
more modern times just out for a green card. However, with exceptions, the reality for
the most part seems to indicate that, then as now, the majority’s motives were not
nearly so sinister or selfish. As law professor and author of Buying a Bride:
An Engaging History of Mail-Order Matches, Marcia Zug, states when she started researching
the book, “I expected to find that… mail-order marriages are fundamentally harmful and that
these problems are long-standing. I was surprised that this is not what I found. Despite significant risks, mail-order marriages
are typically beneficial and even liberating for women.” On that note, the ultimate goal for many men
in the days of yore was simply to find a companion in life and someone to start and raise a family
with- pretty much like the motivations of more traditionally established relationships. Indeed, many of ads from men looking for brides
reflect this quite explicitly. For example, consider this one from one lonely,
and quite frank, 19th century man: I inclose my photograf with My Full Description. It shows the features as nachel as can bee
only it is to Dark; I am very lite Complexion, Gray eyes, Orbon hair, 6 foot high, waight
190 lbs, inclined to be hump shouldered; A Muskler Man and a widower 28 years old with
A Commen Schol Equations, but have Got Anof to Atten to Enny Business, I am strictly Morrel. Don’t use tobacco nor whiskey… I hav Only One Thing to Offer, And it is Neither
Lands Nar Gold. But a Strong Arm and a True Hart and will
lay Down My Life for the Rite Girl and Be Happy, for I am tired of living Alone. The girl that Steels my Hart and takes my
name for the Remainder of My Lif I will make Happy, for I am hunting a Girl that I can
idolise and Make a Angel of. Of course, others just wanted a more traditional
arrangement for the day- love and emotional companionship not really considered at all. Case in point, an Arkansas man who wrote in
1855: Any Gal that’s got a bed, a coffee pot,
and a skillit; knows how to cut out britches, can make a huntin’ shirt, and knows how
to take care of children, can have my services until death parts both of us. However, given a study concerning mail order
brides, conducted in 1890 by criminologist Arthur MacDonald, this latter type of ad is
unlikely to have swayed the typical woman looking to engage in such a mail-order relationship. He noted, much to his consternation, that
a large percentage of the women placing and responding to these ads were primarily looking
for a much more liberal and equal relationship than they could get with their local stock
of men. As one woman he interviewed about her motivations
in taking part in such an arrangement noted, “I am very independent, and I have views
of my own which some people do not approve of.” Yet another stated, “I am tired of the society
act, and fancy I’d like just a tiny bit of bohemianism.” Also of note when reading these ads is that
the women are unusually forthcoming given the time period they were written in, prompting
the aforementioned law professor Zug to surmise that such ads were quite liberating for women
of the era as they allowed them “to take a more active role in the courtship process”. For example, consider this very frank ad written
by a Missouri woman from 1910: Attractive woman, not a day over thirty, would
be pleased to correspond with eligible man. Not absolutely necessary that he should be
young. Would prefer one with property, but one with
a good paying position would be satisfactory. The young lady is of medium height, has brown
hair and gray eyes, not fat, although, most decidedly, she is not skinny. Her friends say she is a fine looking woman. Object matrimony. Reason for this advertisement, the young woman
lives in a little dinky town, where the best catches are the boys behind the counters in
the dry goods and clothing stores, and every one of them is spoken for by the time he is
out of his short pants. Or how about this excerpt from an ad placed
by a group of women from Calgary in 1916: We have looked over the eligibles here, but
find most of them standing in front of the bar or out autoing with somebody’s else
wife. We don’t call them men. What we want is a real man with real brains
and real honor; a man who would like a good, clean wife and a good clean home and honor
them both… Now, if some good bachelor with plenty of
backbone, brains and brawn; who keeps himself scrubbed and brushes his teeth; who pays enough
attention to his fingernails to keep them from going into mourning for past decency,
wants a home and a homey wife, and thinks he can stand a little scolding once in a while
to give spice to life, we shall be mighty glad to hear from him and all about him. Also yes, you read that last part right- this
ad was indeed written by a group of area women looking for a potential male suitor. Even a century ago, men looking for love had
to deal with ads about hot single women in their area apparently. Not only that, but also similar to the modern
world of online dating, we even uncovered a few 19th century news stories of men posing
as young women, fake profiles, pictures and all, in such mail order bride ads. From the few stories we found, it would appear
the motive was primarily to make a fool out of men who responded to the ads. In one case reported in the New York Times
in 1876, supposedly multiple men were involved and even invited a prospective husband to
meet, at which point they doused him in sulfur flour, paraffin oil, and pelted him with rotten
eggs as he ran away. Moving on to the modern day, the process for
finding a bride is a little more streamlined with there existing nearly 3,000 mail order
bride agencies worldwide, around 500 of which operate in the United States. For the most part, these agencies are functionally
similar to a more traditional dating service with the goal being simply to facilitate meetings
between compatible people- just those who sign up here are more explicitly looking for
marriage. Another major difference, at least in the
United States, is that such mail order bride services must adhere to the terms of the The
International Marriage Broker Regulation Act of 2005. In a nutshell, this requires the agencies
in question to perform extremely extensive background checks on prospective male clients. Said background check will generally be used
to ensure the person has a clean record, and will also be used to discern exact details
of one’s personal finances and marital status. This information is then fully disclosed to
women who are interested in a particular prospect to help them make an informed decision. It is also required by law in the U.S. that
the agencies insure that no man on the service can contact a given woman unless she gives
explicit consent for said individual to be able to do so. In a nutshell the intention here is to protect
women from being taken advantage of or misled, which naturally is a risk when brought to
a country that is wholly foreign to them, often with little way to get back. On this note, Zug notes, “The idea that
men are buying women and that the women have no say, no free will, basically that they’re
trafficked [is not true] … mail-order brides are very much, in most cases, in control. It doesn’t mean that it always works out. But they know what they’re doing in the
sense that they believe that this is going to be something that offers them an opportunity
to improve their lives.” Of course, often in such modern potential
matches there exists a language barrier that hinders progress in initial meetups. As such, most mail-order bride services offer
translation services, allowing clients and prospective partners to communicate more effectively-
a service it should be noted most agencies charge handsomely for, along with many other
fees leading to frequent accusations being levelled against some agencies that they’re
just preying on emotionally vulnerable men and attempting to milk them for all their
worth, with little care as to whether they actually ever find a match. In fact, the longer it takes to find a match,
the lonelier they potentially get and the more the company can make off them. As one individual whose made something of
a career in trying to help men and women who sincerely want healthy relationships find
each other, Mark Edward Davis, once put it: “The online dating scene, their business
model, is designed to keep you on the website, feeding the meter, not finding a wife.” Another popular service offered by some, but
not all, mail-order bride agencies is international trips to meet prospective partners in person
at events not unlike singles mixers. Said events allow clients to meet in person
to see if there’s a spark, with translation services often being on hand to facilitate
communication. As you can imagine these trips aren’t cheap
and as such, limit the dating pool to reasonably wealthy individuals. This all brings us around to the meat of the
issue- cost. Although mail-order bride agencies are hesitant
to reveal the amount of money they earn per male client, it has been estimated that, even
beyond considering the normal costs associated with the immigration process when marrying
someone from another country and attempting to get them citizenship, most clients will
have spent between $6000 to $10,000 when all is said and done. Because of the amounts here, this generally
sees the users of such services being older men who are either independently wealthy of
have a large amount of money saved. Again looking at more modern times, reasons
for using a mail-order bride service vary, though most queried men report that they simply
became disenchanted with dating people in their own area for various reasons, sometimes
just lack of any options, and other times just lack of options that the person likes. As one gentlemen aptly put it, “after my
divorce I noticed that the dating pool was very shallow, and wide.” As previously alluded to, women who sign up
today report signing up for vaguely similar, though slightly more varied reasons- mostly
centered around that they simply want a better life for themselves in a better environment,
more freedom than they have back home, and a stable and loving partner- a sentiment it’s
hard to disagree with since that’s more or less what most people want from a relationship. On this note, as in the days of the wild west,
a curious trend noticed by experts who’ve interviewed both men and women involved in
the mail-order bride industry is that: “The mail-order bride business as it now operates
may be in the perverse position of attempting to match independent, nontraditional women
with very traditional Western men.” Or to put it another way, the mail-order bride
industry is in the hilarious position of trying to match men with ultra conservative views
of marriage with confident, often very liberally minded women. For example, as one man looking for love abroad
via a mail-order bride service stated, he felt that his local women were, to quote,
“too interested in what I was worth. With women’s liberation in the USA, I had
them calling me, coming to my house. Before, the man called the woman when he wanted
to date her; the woman was not the initiator. Now is so different from what I grew up with,
so I thought that the best thing to do was to meet someone that can’t just come to
my house.” On this note in a study looking at why American
men who use these services so strongly go for Latina women, it was found that the men
in question tended to be looking for women who adhered more to the stereotypical classic
mold of a wife- dedicated to home and children while letting the man take the lead in more
traditionally manly roles. As one such man stated, “The husband and
wife are equal partners in the family structure, though not the same. Men and women are different in physical and
mental abilities. I feel that the wife has her place in the
family structure, such as giving more care to children, the house, and things of that
nature. The husband should take care of income and
things of that nature.” On the other end, the Latina women generally
considered even these American men to be suitable because they found them to be, to quote the
author of said study, “more faithful, less jealous, and less chauvinistic than” their
local men. Or as one Colombian woman who ultimately married
an American man stated, “I met men in Colombia, I was married, I had my experience. I decided to look for something different,
try men from another culture that might be better than ours. American men are more serious; [they] worry
and respect their wife.” On this note, in an attempt to explain this
seeming paradox, the aforementioned Marcia Zug surmised in an interview with The Guardian
“that it’s all about perspective”, noting that “for many of these women an unliberated
American man seems like a feminist” when compared to the dating pool in their respective
countries of origin. Then again, it doesn’t seem like this is
all that big a deal considering what little data we have access to suggests that the divorce
rates for marriages brokered by mail-order bride agencies are in the ballpark of the
rates for the average U.S marriage, though of course the potential for deportation until
some level of citizenship or residency is established perhaps provides extra motivation
to stay together, where someone found locally might have just left a given bad situation. On the male side of things, given the large
percentage of men with very traditional values and views on marriage participating, they
likewise might be slightly more motivated to stay together even in a bad situation,
both because of these views and also potentially knowing the possible consequences to the woman
should they divorce her. In any event, to sum up the answer to the
question posed- yes, you can indeed go online and find a bride through so-called mail-order
bride agencies, and remarkably people’s motivations both in the days of the wild west
and today in entering into such arrangements seem pretty much to be the same, and not really
that different than the motivations most everyone has when wanting to find a companion in life. And
for the curious, it turns out there are also mail
order husband websites out there, but as you might expect, they aren’t nearly as popular
as their lady-filled counterparts. Also
for those curious- yes the author and editor of this piece’s suggested ads were a complete mess after researching this
topic, even prompting the editor’s wife to ask some pretty poignant questions when
later observing said ads that were coming up on his computer… We’d also now like to apologize for the
ads you’re no doubt now getting thanks to reading this piece.

Danny Hutson

100 thoughts on “Can You Really Just Go Online and Order a Wife from Some Other Country?

  1. While it may be relatively easy for people in certain developed western countries to find themselves mail order brides/husbands from regions like Asia & some Slavonic type countries etc, the difficulty can then often be getting that mail order spouse to be allowed into one's home country as migrants, permanent residents, & eventual citizens.

    Some countries have very strict rules about who they will allow in as migrants – even though the person wishing to migrate may now be the wife/husband of a citizen of that developed western country. The fact that one is now the spouse of a citizen of that developed western country does not necessarily automatically entitle one to be allowed into that country as a migrant/permanent resident, & often the immigration authorities can be very sceptical about the genuineness of such "mail order" type marriages, & the amount of documentation one needs to produce, to confirm to the authorities that the relationship is a genuine one, can be quite onerous – such as providing evidence of the couple's correspondence over a considerable period of time.

    I personally know of one married couple where the partners were from different countries, whose relationship went through such considerable scrutiny by the immigration authorities back in the 1990's – & theirs was not even a "mail order" relationship/marriage. The girl was from an Asian country & had studied for a number of years at a university in a western country, during which time she met her future husband, who was from that western country, & they became romantically involved. After completing her studies she returned to her home country (as required under the terms of her visa) & got a job there, but their relationship continued as a "long distance" one for some time, before they finally decided to get married, which took place in the girl's home country.

    Following their marriage, the man eventually returned to his home country (where he had a job to go back to), but it took quite some time before the girl, who was now his wife, was eventually issued with a migrant visa to be allowed into her husband's home country as a migrant/permanent resident. In order to do that, they had to provide copies of their correspondence from the "long distance" part of their relationship, even though their relationship had actually commenced while the girl had been studying in her future husband's country for several years.

    So, although those "mail order" types of marriages can certainly happen with relative ease – it's not always then quite so easy to get that spouse migrant status into one's home country.

  2. Hey, the first guy sounded like investigative discovery material LOL I'm hunting a girl that I can make an angel of LOL I know he said idolize but it sounds like hunting a trophy.

  3. my story not from pen pal per say, but, much intersting 2 mariages to filipina. 1st met in town and dated,and hitched quick. son ,family lost after van roll over/divorce bacrupcy , 2nd to help both but again used as friends say. folks confuse my foriegn affairs with that of ' mail order , so i explain..'

  4. I knew a guy who got a Russian wife from one of those sites. According to her most of the girls aren't seriously looking, they get to flirt and are sent gifts by men, so they're just having fun

  5. I'm in a small village in the middle of a ricefield in an island in the Philippines. Good thing there are dozens of hot Russian women looking for single men just 5 kilometers away!

  6. He does brush his teeth now he only needs a few replaced that guy is a shit and they want latinas cause there really hot

  7. my friend tried that back in the 1990,s, the Russian woman took the money he sent her for a plane ticket and spent in on clothes. he contacted her ask why she hadn't showed up. she explained to him she couldn't come to america in the rags she owned, and she got some food cause she was hungry. BUT if he sent more money she would get the plane ticket and be right over. AND HE DID. that also didnt work.

  8. When no one wants to be with you & your not the most desirable man then YouTube suggest this video. Light bulb!

  9. Mail order bride or grooms does not mean deragotary, but this activity has made considerable people to spit out misandry

  10. We should have mail order husband services because all the whores around my town Are “lesbians” or too “educated” for a blue collar guy

  11. Lol the real question everyone wanted to know that wasn’t answered in the 17 minute video:

    Is it really possible to order a human being online (from a selection of hot Russian chicks) that will be shipped from overseas to become your wife?

  12. My cousin who died of cancer 4 years ago met his wife on a website based on finding foreign women. She was Chinese and they eventually met in person in China. They got married within a month of meeting. She moved to the US. They were happily married for 5 years before my cousin died. She was there for him throughout the entire fight for cancer and was deeply hurt and mourned my cousin. She's still apart of the family and we treat her like anybody else.

  13. Oh you can! My baby daddy ordered a Vietnamese nasty chick! Took a lil while, wish they would stop human trafficking, just cuz they're in wedding dresses doesnt mean there shouldn't be a wall built in the sky,not just at land border! Sad sad! Plenty of choices living in a city! But over seas invading the world, whose to say these ordered mates aren't terrorists,stupid stupid! And you only have to pay money and get a life coordinator and then for a very low low price they translate for you

  14. Sad that our people don't go out and find their love, they get ways to smuggle people in and then own somebody, too bad everyone didn't marry for love

  15. So if you don't marry for love and you ordered, what is a kid to those people? Ordered Brides don't even come from our culture, other countries eat dogs and here in the Americas we have them as pets so what are kids just an asset just an infestation bread amongst our people crazy thought in what way is ordering a human being even legitimate how could you have a kid with someone that you can't even communicate and say good morning to? How are these people raised? My parents loved each other and had kids together cuz they communicated and agreed on it, but to get paid to take someone's daughter from overseas and the government taxes you and says it's not human smuggling come on people wake up, what is the point of marriage, to file taxes together? Does an overseas mate have better life insurance or something? Weird and gross

  16. For hookers and strippers always get frowned upon selling of a human being but in a wedding dress it's okay so in most countries do they even have wedding dresses?

  17. how sad the men use the excuse that they haven't raised their own Community well enough to choose any woman out of there, that they'll take the tax write-off and get paid to take someone ,what a crock of s***

  18. I completely understand these issues… my wife, she's from a different state. Met through a friend of a friend of a friend lol. We are completely from different social groups. But we are a perfect match, same interests and hobbies… personalities are even nearly the same.

    To be blunt as to why I was looking outside of my state,
    Local stock was a stagnant pond. Nearly all women were cheaters, drugged up, and or thieves…

  19. Very interesting video here! One thing I wish one of those letters had pointed out is just how insanely jealous Colombian women are! My now ex-wife of over 20 years would not even speak to me if I was even a bit friendly to the 70+ year old check out lady in the local Wal Mart! Needless to say when my kids were near adults I called it quits. I hope my experience helps one other guy.
    One thing is correct though, rules of dating have really changed! Locals are few and REALLY wide…. online seems like a better option for lonely hearts but be careful and TAKE YOUR TIME!

  20. How you get married doesn’t matter as much as whether or not you stay married. For some people love comes after marriage for others love goes

  21. Pretty confirms MGTOW or Red Pill minded types why the modern Western women is not marriageable all along thanks to the more liberated attitude amplified by feminism. Even our own women here in the Far East are becoming as unmarriageable as the Western women, check out Japan. Also the trade off is also to skewed to Western women thanks to one-sided laws again thanks to feministic bias and its coming to us here in the Far East. Thanks feminism, you just made it way harder for traditional minded men to women that at least can be reasoned with. Red pill and MGTOW types are more right than ever.

  22. When seeking someone to spend forever with i would want someone with the same beliefs & moral's as myself. Someone who can not only have fun but like myself, can laugh at themselves & just be silly sometimes [letting the hair down]. Someone who wants a family & see's marriage as a gift from God & not from a judge & so recognises only God can part what He has put together – NO DIVORCE unless i become some angry animal etc, then separation is the only option but divorce is Gods to carry out just as only God can wed a couple [ civil partnership aint marriage ] – MAN LACKS THE AUTHORITY AS CHRIST TOLD US WHEN TELLING US WHY MOSES WENT AGAINST GODS PLAN BY ALLOWING IT] If you agree with all this, i will buy you. I will not rush you into marriage & we can live like brother & sister/friends for 2 years to get to know each other & if either does not see the other as marriage material then no harm done – we will part as friends..THIS SAVES MISERY ON THE PART OF THE COUPLE PLUS POSSIBLE CHILDREN..Toxic feminism has destroyed the family & now is trying to destroy how we go about finding & dealing with relationships – Sadly a small few pl are falling for it

  23. So you meet a girl, you go for a meal & hold the door open while telling her how pretty she looks. You of course pay for the meal, then go for a lovely walk through the town enjoying the spring weather & you stop at her door. You tell her you had a lovely evening & would like to see her again. You kiss her gently on the lips & say good night. Now in the real world your ok i guess, i'd allow you to date my sister but in the left's world you sexually assaulted her 6 times, physically assaulted her twice & by holding a door open, paying the bill & walking her home – well this is what sexist's do. So if you want to meed a girl to spend forever with, bring a team of lawyers on your first date. Only speak to her via the lawyers

  24. I've waited about a year to watch this video after seeing it over and over in my feed… now I am rewarded with mail order bride adds. Lol. Oh Simon. Lol

  25. 🎼🎵🎶 All the single ladies, all the single ladies! If ya like it, then ya shoulda put a stamp on it!🎶🎶🎵🎼🤣

  26. A weird guy I used to work with did this. He went to some website, and met (online) a girl from the Philippines. After about a year she came over to live with him and get married. I think he said all-in, with a couple trips to meet her in-person and all the other expenses, it was about 25K. His folks thought he was nuts but he was like 30 so they couldn't do anything to stop him. They were together maybe a couple years, had a kid and split up. So she got a free ride to the states, and her citizenship, legally, and has an anchor baby so she can't be sent back home. Which I'm pretty sure was her agenda from the start. Last I heard (2015) she found another sugar daddy and was trying to get some of her immediate family into the states.

  27. you don't need to join a mail order bride to get the same services they provide everything they provide you can do yourself you can get software easilly now that helps with translations , i would advice you do it yourself as you'll likely save money in the long run, if she's worth it then its worth putting in the effort yourself to get her to you and she will recognize your efforts if she's worth it, you can find a lady overseas very easily by joining verified dating sites from around the world. I know this because I have done it myself, I have 2 kids from my own country already but that last relationship put me off women in my own country. sorry if this offends some people but western women generally seem to want to have conflict in a relationship for some reason and give up the moment things get tough, everything has to be equal for them but men and women should be working together based on their strengths to complement there relationship .. I have that now with my wife and have been happy for years now and still going strong, I am from the UK and shes was from the Philippines , once we save up here in UK we are planning to retire back in her country and im looking forward to it., tips for making it work .. accept she is from a different culture and integrate her own culture and values into your own, learn her language too if she doesn't understand yours very well, basically accept not just her but who she is and where she is from into your life and you'll spend rest of your days a very happy man.

  28. Seems the idea that it matches liberal women and conservative men is kind of ridiculous. Maybe liberal for their country, in wanting a man who is not an alcoholic or beats his wife. Many foreign countries simply want a man who is better than what they have, but that means they want a man who wants to work, raise a family etc. How is that liberal? most of these women want to raise afamily and take care of their man, family, and home. Once they get to America, that may be a different story.

  29. My cousin got a mail order bride from Russia. He was in his fifties, and she looked like a supermodel. Surprise! She took off as soon as the priest pronounced them husband and wife, and he never saw her again.

  30. An extensive background check was done on all the men, but how about the women? Of course, no background check is needed on the women because women are always virtuous, honest and truthfull. What a bunch of BS.

  31. I think mail order bride services are fine. I wish most of them would not require you to buy translation services. It might just be me but If I am dating someone I want to be able to speak their language . If i want to marry a Russian woman I would learn to speak Russian and learn something about her culture. I would likely go visit Russia. In reality I would likely not need a mail order bride service if i am going to travel to Russia and spoke Russian. I think the best way to do this would be to get a TEFL certificate and go teach English in your selected country. Then you can date while you are there and are likely to have better relationships as you can actually spend the time getting to know your mate as opposed to writing letters to someone who might not have the best intentions. You have to meet them eventually and I would rather meet a Chinese woman at a Dumpling shop in Shenyang before I spend 1000s of dollars marrying her and bringing her to where we live.

  32. Conservative men from an overly liberal culture seeking a more traditional wife will get liberal women from an overly conservative culture? I don't see the contradiction at all.

  33. You do realize that the description given of these particular relationships pretty much extends to ALL marriages, right? Basically, a man looking for an analogue of a blow-up doll and the woman setting her eyes on an unlimited allowance. That's pretty much the way it's always been.

  34. Looking for a woman willing to bear me many children. I'm wealthy, young, and well mannered. Your primary role will be to care for the children as I already have staff to care for tasks around the house. My work is demanding and so I won't have much time to spare. English will be necessary as you'll need to accompany me to business events. Reply if you're interested.

  35. My relationship with my fiance is definitely like a business agreement. He tells me what he wants from me, I tell him what I need and that's that. He's my best friend & I'm his. He works & rubs my feet.. I cook, clean& get pregnant. We're building an independent business together so that we can make more money & spend more time with our family.

  36. You left out some things like the fact that you can't just have a random foreign girl you picked out online delivered to the USA. Meeting in person first is a requirement for a Fiancee visa and most would not be approved for a tourist visa to visit the USA.

  37. Asian Women could be alright Maury Povich has been married to Connie Chun since 1984, Norbert Meisel to Nancy Kwan since 1976, Neal Shapiro to Juju Chang (Born in south Korea) married Dec. 2, 1995. Les Bret Hedican to Kristi Yamagucci since 2000, Les Moorves to Julie Chen since 2004. Of course none of these were mail order brides.

  38. I replied to a advert in a music magazine personal ads column , and that was how I met my future husband ( 1977 ) I lived in a very rural area with poor transport so it was difficult meeting people .

  39. My buddy is a mail order bride thief. He is very happily married to a woman that was brought over from the Philippines by her 1st husband through an online service. She wasn't happy so she went to an online dating service (while still married) and my friend met her and stole her way from her husband. She divorced the 1st guy and had been married to my friend for about 10 years now. Weird.

  40. I worked with a smoking hot Chinese girl (early 20s) who was mail order to a 50something. After she attained citizenship, he passed. She was panicked that she wouldn't be able to live on her own financially and might have to go back. A different Chinese lady at work took her and the 2 kids in.

  41. Criminal clean record ah yes that shit, no mail order brides for me then

    That leaves what? ordering whores from the dark web with some drugs and whatever kinky shit that's on sale?? 🤣🤣🤷‍♂️

    Marriage would be a bit much anyway lol it's not like 1950s anymore

  42. I would like to play a trivia game against Simond . Like playing Chess against a much better player. It would be a privilege to lose .

  43. I sent off for a mail order bride
    When she arrived wrapped in brown paper it was a total disappointment on unwrapping only to find she was ugly.
    They never look like they do in the catalog

  44. 1.7k got scammed lol how sad depressing your self has to be to order that! YOU THINK SHE IS GOING TO LOVE YOU? OR RESPECT YOU? Hahahahahahahahahahaha sad sad

  45. Biggest mistake we make as human beings is to think that we can change someone into some mythical ideal after marriage.

  46. These ads remind me of bios on social media. This was the dating app bumblebee or tinder before the internet came out…the difference is people are getting married instead of hooking up.

  47. Me:
    Me: sees video of simon on how to buy waifu online
    Youtube ads: Russian beautiful waifus online just for you!
    Me: -.-
    Me: o_0 oh rly?

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